Saving My Relationship

I will try to keep this as short as I can. First, I am a busy corporate woman. I work 8 hours and then have time during the evenings to be home for my four-legged friends - 1 dog, 3 cats (2 are outside cats the other has been declawed by my folks and is older cat) Anyways, I have literally hit rock bottom! I LOVE my pets. They mean so much to me. I would be devastated to give them away, but having them is coming in between my relationship. The prob I have is that ‘they’ cat or dog?? have soiled my carpet pretty bad. I have tried EVERYTHING to get rid of the smell. I don’t know what to do anymore to remedy this prob I can’t live smelling the ammonia odor from crystallized urine. My bf said if I don’t do anything he doesn’t know if he can be with me anymore (they are my pets my problem). I hate having to choose, but I agree it is a problem. I have the dog in a crate at night and most of the time he is outside. 1 cat is inside. The carpet is ruined. What can I do - please help save us!
BTW - What do you if you can’t tear up the carpets? Can you suggest other things I can do to eliminate the smell for good? Or is the damage permanent?

My girlfriend and my self have been dating for a little over three months and now I do feel like it is going to end. But I don’t want it to so I have been trying my best to save it.

When we first started to date everything was absolutely amazing and we were both vary much into each other. I told her honesty was the biggest thing to me in a relationship she felt the same way. Something that was a little important to her was a guy with goals in life.

So I was vary hypocritical and lied to her about going to collage in the past just so I could impress her. I kept this going for about two and a half months before it ate away at me and I told her the truth.

When I did she was absolutely crushed and felt betrayed. Sense then the relationship has not been the same. Now that I know how upset she is I get thoughts of paranoia about her leaving or going behind my back on things just because I lied to her. I am always asking if she is feeling ok or if she is alright when she is vary quite or looks upset. But just about every time I do she tells me that I am acting paranoid. I feel like I say these things just to make sure she is happy .

She also is not as affectionate with me as she once was. Just about every time we hold hands or kiss its because of me doing so and when I do it I feel like she is not into it. She seems like she wants to be distant and cold. Also small things that I would say or do that would make her mad for only a little bit now make her furious.

She has told me its because of the lie I told and for how long I kept it going and that she feels like she can not trust me. But she knows how sorry I am. If she could just forgive me I think everything will go back to the way it was. I feel like I am the only one trying to keep this relationship together now.

Ok this is a long one so bear with me. My boyfriend and of of 6 years are separating, we have a daughter together who is about to turn 4 next week. We have been through a lot as young parents including issues with my Dad. For the past 1 and 8months I have been stuck in a hole. Depressed in a sense, I easily lost hold of who I was and my goals and ambitions in life. My boyfriend and Dad had a huge blow out at that time. I was reluctant to address the issue and resolve anyway but mine which is to let time heel which was not working. It has been a struggle since not having my Dads side of the family apart of our lives and constant arguments between my boyfriend and I over the issue plus others. It has gotten to the breaking point with my boyfriend that he wants to separate. He feels that I am not the person I use to be, that I am weak and do not stand up for what I feel. I feel the support has not been there always you should do this and that and never any WE. We have talked about how the separation will allow us to work on ourselves and heal and maybe we will rejoin in the future. This is not what I want, I believe this is something we can do with out separating. Sorry if I am babbling now but I need advice. I want to save this relationship I do not want to separate, I have tried many different things and they are not working. Including talking to my Dad and attempting to re-build our relationship in hopes to create some positive energy between our homes. (Something my boyfriend told me to do a long time ago but I wanted to do it my way was getting some head way until I got shot down with the it’s to late, I don’t care anymore from my boyfriend) So please do not hold back any words of wisdom would be helpful. I do not want my family to be torn apart I believe we are strong enough to strive. any additional info needed please ask. I thank you in advance.

I really want to save my relationship with my boyfriend but I am concerned that to much has been done and said on both of our parts for it to saved. We have each made mistakes and hurt the other person. He admitted last night that he has hurt me more severely and more often then I have hurt him and apologized for it. I really concerned that he has pushed me away for so long that that we may not ever get back to the way things were. I’ve been reading relationship articales on line but I don’t know if that stuff really works or not. Does anyone have suggestions as to how to get this relationship back on track??

Come on!

Give me some ideas.

I have been with my man for a long time now and things are getting boring… I need ideas on how to make our relationship new again… Its been about 3 years and we always do the same thing. Neither of us drinks or smokes, we don’t go clubbing because of all the retards everywhere… We need something fun to do that doesn’t cost any money…

Anything that could save this relationship will be appreciated.

Thanks.

They had a relationship of over 98 but once I invited the sim over to my house he turned and started poking and slapping my sim. How do I save there frienship? He gets mad at everything my sim says. It wasnt like this before.