My girlfriend and my self have been dating for a little over three months and now I do feel like it is going to end. But I don’t want it to so I have been trying my best to save it.
When we first started to date everything was absolutely amazing and we were both vary much into each other. I told her honesty was the biggest thing to me in a relationship she felt the same way. Something that was a little important to her was a guy with goals in life.
So I was vary hypocritical and lied to her about going to collage in the past just so I could impress her. I kept this going for about two and a half months before it ate away at me and I told her the truth.
When I did she was absolutely crushed and felt betrayed. Sense then the relationship has not been the same. Now that I know how upset she is I get thoughts of paranoia about her leaving or going behind my back on things just because I lied to her. I am always asking if she is feeling ok or if she is alright when she is vary quite or looks upset. But just about every time I do she tells me that I am acting paranoid. I feel like I say these things just to make sure she is happy .
She also is not as affectionate with me as she once was. Just about every time we hold hands or kiss its because of me doing so and when I do it I feel like she is not into it. She seems like she wants to be distant and cold. Also small things that I would say or do that would make her mad for only a little bit now make her furious.
She has told me its because of the lie I told and for how long I kept it going and that she feels like she can not trust me. But she knows how sorry I am. If she could just forgive me I think everything will go back to the way it was. I feel like I am the only one trying to keep this relationship together now.
Originally posted 2008-12-24 15:25:27.
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Well the first thing I think, is that the main importants things to the both of you, were broken by you. You weren’t honest with her, and you don’t have the goals she said were important to her. She is probably going to break up with you. Sorry bro. Why don’t you want to go to college, that could help.