You need to tell your boyfriend that you strongly believe that the two of you can survive through this. Tell him that you love him and don’t want to lose him. I also strongly suggest praying, everyday. Talk to God, tell Him everything, and have faith that He will keep your family together. Good luck to your family, I’ll be praying for you.

what is your dad fighting with your boyfriend for? Do you still need your dads help? are you living with father? does your boyfriend work and support kid? my ans would be family counseling on normal stuff but I don’t know if your father has good cause to be up set and your boyfriend should not be the one who is fighting with your father

it sounds like this situation has gone on long enough that your fights are probably just repeats where you all just say the same things over and over again and no one is really listening anymore.

your boyfriend is right about one thing: something must change. he might think that you guys need to seperate but since you have a child who will be affected I would like to see you guys try to stay together and work things out

since fighting and going over the same old issues is not getting you guys anywhere it is time to get a third-party involved. Some one who can act like a referee – a person who can listen to both of you (and maybe your dad too) and help you both hear what the other one realy needs.

if you do not have the money to pay for counseling there are options. start by calling you local social services agency and asking for a a therapist with a sliding fee schedule. therapists must work hundreds of hours in order to get certified so often they are willing to work for little or no money in order to get their license. you can also contact CPS – i know that may sound scary but really they can be helpful – ask about voluntary services. Most CPS (child protective service)agencies have what they call voluntary services where they will offer free couseling and other services just because you ask and you have a child who will be affected by what happens to your family. They will give you services without getting all up in your business.

Even if your boyfriend and dad refuse to go with you to couseling go by yourself. You are being torn between the two men in your life and that has to be painful and confusing – a good therapist can help you figure out what YOU want and need to be the best mom to your daughter.

I wish you luck and if you need more help finding help email me and tell me what town you are in and i will try to find help for you and your family.

Just give it time and maybe things will work out for you.

See if your boyfriend will agree to marriage counseling (even so you aren’t married, a counselor can help you work out these issues and/or figure out if separating is the best thing or not in your situation). It’s hard to advise without details (and I’m not asking you to post details here) about everything like what the issues with Dad are, etc.

It doesn’t sound like this has anything to do with your Dad. Your boyfriend wants out. Separating is bad because the likelyhood of getting back together is very slim. If you separate he’ll see it as permission to do whatever (and whoever) he wants. If he doesn’t think your relationship is worth saving then he won’t work to make things better. Such a shame with a little girl involved. Good luck

ask God for guidance give everything to him have faith and ull c how everything turns out GREAT!!!!