so my boyfriend i have been together for about 5 months, we got in a fight he said our personalities dont go well together.just because we fight?? so i told him that if he loves me like i think he does, he will try to work this out, we are okay now i guess. but i just feel like im annoying to him. my best friend samie talks to his best friend jacob all the time she told me that last weekend [before the big fight] he was suppose to call me, but jacob convinced him not to, so he didnt because i guess they were too busy playing rock band. i wanna ask my boyfriend about it, but it will just turn into a fight he said one more fight it will never work out so i guess that means we will break up if we fight one more time. should i just ignore it or ask him becaus he lied to me cuz he said his phone died.
what should i do to saave this relationship? i love him i think he loves me too but idk. should i leave it alone? this isnt the first time this has happened…i want to save us.!
Originally posted 2009-04-10 11:59:43.
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First thing you should know about relationships.. the first few months you have to get to know each other. However, fighting so within the time period you have been with him sounds to me like he’s not the relationship guy. Especially if he’s letting his friends convince him of not calling you. Talk to him and let him know that you wanna work things out but it goes both ways. remember in a relationship both couples have to put their part in it too. its 50/50 thing.. and if he continues doing the same than you’re better off without him and with someone who really wants to click with you.. take care
At every point in the future will you avoid asking him a question if it might end up in a fight? Will this always be acceptable to you? (This cannot work)
You cannot avoid every fight. If that is his intent, it will not work out. You may as well find out now.
However, if your relationship is defined by your fights, that won’t work either. Let it go!
well my advice to you is give him some space, i learned it the hard way but i promise space helps your relationship dont smother him, act a little mad if you want and he will ask why and tell him about his friend telling him not to call you, but i dont see it as a big deal.